Finally, dating will have its ups and down, but it should be fun. So, if it's just feeling hard and scary, work out what you can change. Maybe online dating isn't for you, maybe active dates work better than drinking dates, maybe you want your friends to help set you up. But don't be afraid to find what works for you, what makes it fun for you, and stick to that.
And remember, a date is just a date. “I tell all of my clients that a first date is not a trip down the aisle.” Certified Matchmaker Marissa Ventura tells Bustle. “It is simply one human being, getting to know another human being and figuring out if there is a connection or not. That's all.”
If you get further into a relationship and it's not feeling fun, remember what I said— you need to make sure you're in the right relationship, rather than just riding of the high of being in a relationship at all. We all are especially vulnerable in our first relationship, at any age, so make sure you're being honest with yourself.
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